Wednesday, July 28, 2010

No News Is .... Because I'm Boring

So, yeah... I've been a little MIA... Sorry bout that. Iyah... Don't have a whole lot to say I guess - But how are you? What's new?

Okay Seriously. I'm sorry I've been a little out of touch. It's funny because I always wondered about the people who let their blogs go for weeks without an update. How could they not feel compelled to overshare with general public?! I love writing here, I love that years from now I'll be able to look back at April 9th, 2008 and see where I was in my life... I've tried though! I have several unpublished posts that I started and just felt like they weren't really going anywhere, and I didn't want to drag you along with me. Then I happened to look at my calendar and realized that Sunday will be August 1st. (Holy Crap - AUGUST?!) And I can't let the entire month of July go by without a single update, now can I?

So in an effort to keep my future self posted as to where I'm at in my life on this very day, and so you all don't think I've run off to abduct Jason Sudeikis. I give you updates via bullet point, ala: I'm not dead, I swear.

  • Da Heyouse - I've wrapped myself up in all kinds of household projects. Painting, organizing, purging - all LONG overdue.

  • Fund Raising - Remember my 34 year old, non-smoking friend with Stage IV Lung Cancer? Well I joined a 5K Fund raiser for the organization he is involved with and I've spent a bit of time emailing and calling folks about it. I've even gone back on to Facebook (gulp) to shamelessly plug it. (Speaking of shameless plugging, if you'd like to donate to a REALLY fantastic and worthy cause, you can email me at bloggyme027 at gmail dot com)

  • IF Related -I signed us up for a Seminar that a local RE is doing the last week of September. And I set up a phone consultation for a few days after to discuss our future IVF cycle. Exciting! (It's either a phone consultation or a $500 face to face - free shit is better)

  • The RE's office sent me a package the very next day after my phone call with tons of paperwork, a dvd about them, and pricing. I also found out we might qualify for a 10-25% financial assistance discount that will be based on our income. I'm pretty sure we'll qualify for one of the two - sweetness!

  • Countdown - We're 35 days away from Pumpkin Spice Latte's.

  • Which means we're on the downhill side of the countdown to IVF in early 2011. Hoo-fuckin-rah

  • Weight Loss - I'm down 21.5lbs total, and I've hit a bit of a plateau. In the last two weeks I've bounced up and down about a half a pound. Which is pretty annoying. Guess it's time to mix up my exercise routine again. 14.5 more to go!
  • So there you have it. Nothing terribly exciting to post about, but I just wanted you all to know I'm still here. Brian has commented on more than one occasion about how nice it is to "have me back". While I feel like I've been in a good place for at least the last four months, I kind of know what he saying. I'm living my life again, and it doesn't have much to do with TTC or our failure to do so. (though I still demand sex when I'm ovulating). And I think the main reason it's been so easy to let go of is only because there is a silent simultaneous countdown ticking away in my head to when we will finally get to move forward again. So while my world is no where near revolving around it, it is still very much present in my everyday life. And now, if you'd like to discuss Politics, I can contradict myself further.

    Melissa G - OUT.

    24 comments:

    Rach said...

    Thanks for the update. Awesome weight loss success!!

    Jo said...

    Glad to hear that things are moving along. I know how you feel about living life again...but with that countdown in the back of your mind. I'm in a very similar place these days!

    Sending lots of hugs and love your way.

    Jo

    Once Upon A Time said...

    Good to hear from you! I did miss you! Glad to hear that overall, you are doing well and that there haven't been any huge problems since you last posted.

    Are you still doing The Shred? Congrats on the 21.6 lbs- the other 14 aren't far behind.

    Les said...

    That's awesome on the weight loss! And I'm glad to hear that you're living your life again.
    Oh my goodness- 35 days until pumpkin spice goodness?! woo-hoo!

    Kelly said...

    It's great to hear from you. :) Congratulations on the weight loss!!

    Kerri said...

    Pumpkin spice lattes are just around the corner?! I had no idea. That kind of made my morning. :)

    Um, yeah. I would've gone the way of the phone consultation too. Holy wow- a $500 face to face?!! Yikes.

    Congrats on the weight loss. That's awesome. And good for you for sticking with it.

    I'm so sorry about your friend. I do remember you mentioning it a while back & I saw your Facebook post about it too. It's just so sad and scary. Puts things into perspective, you know?

    Glad to hear from you, Melissa. I always like your updates.

    Jessica said...

    Good to hear from you. Glad to hear that you are back to yourself and enjoying life!!

    Jill said...

    Thank you SO much for alerting me to the upcoming pumpkin spice latte availability! YUM!

    I'm glad you're feeling more like yourself. Take care and good luck with all the IVF learning and planning!

    Glass Case of Emotion said...

    Glad to hear you are enjoying your life and are "back to it"...

    S said...

    Sometimes "boring," as in "no drama to share" is good!

    Congratulations on your weight loss--that's awesome! I'm envious. ;-)

    babyattheend said...

    Glad to hear from you and that you're back at it. Congrats on the 5K and the weight loss! I can't wait to hear about how your seminar goes... and the discount!

    'Murgdan' said...

    OMG...pumpkin spice lattes.
    :)
    Good to hear from you!

    Jendeis said...

    I've missed you! Glad to know that you're doing ok. :)

    P.S. Only 72 days till the first hockey game of the season (for the Caps, at least).

    Anonymous said...

    yay for:

    free shit
    discounts
    pumpkin spice lattes
    your weight loss!
    sex on demand

    good to hear from you - lisa from meinsideout

    Missy said...

    I love your latte countdown. I also find it hard to believe this year is going so quickly.

    Wanna Bee said...

    congrats on the weight loss - i have not ever been able to lose weight in the past, but it is a future goal for my health.

    Hillary said...

    You're so not boring! I love how even your 'mundane' updates make me laugh! And I'm with you on the pumpkin spice lattes....and then the holiday ones after that! Didn't we both try to get one after New Year's when we met and they had stopped selling them? That was sad...

    Lisa said...

    Always good to get your updates, m'dear! Thank you for being such a rock of support.

    Mmmm. The pumpkin spice latte sounds divine. I am intrigued. Take me with you! :)

    Melissa G said...

    Hillary - yes! The Carmel Brulee Latte - SO GOOD!

    I remember how disappointed we both were, lol.

    Jamie said...

    Thanks for the update! I've been hoping July has been good to you and you are totally not boring! So sweet that Brian has noticed a difference in you, too, and is enjoying time with you. Hope the house projects are continuing to go well. Good luck in you race in the fall and I totally love pumpkin! Fall is a great time of the year, as much as I don't want to wish my summer away. :) Keep it up girlie! You are doing awesome!!!

    Three Cats and a Baby said...

    Mmmm...pumpkin spice lattes...I LOVE FALL!!!

    Awesome job with the weight loss. That's a lot.

    Jessica said...

    Welcome back! Great to hear from you. Congrats on the weight loss...that's awesome!

    You sound like you are in a better place...very happy for you. I know you are so excited about IVF! It will be here before you know it!

    Anonymous said...

    Congrats on the weight loss lovely lady!!!

    Jem said...

    Melissa,

    We have an appointment with that same RE on September 11. We are very excited! I haven't watched the RE's DVD yet, but will this weekend. Our medical files were sent to his office today! Moving forward is a good, good thing.