- An outlet of some sort became necessary approximately six months after we officially started trying, and my lovely husband couldn't understand why I cried alone in the bathroom every 31 days.
- At that point I was still fairly certain that I'd see a positive pee stick in the very near future and shortly thereafter commence writing a wildly self-indulgent, and more than likely whiny pregnant-lady-type-blog.
- Lingering only slightly in denial, we didn't have any testing done until after 14 months of trying.
- A week before Christmas, 2008 we found out we had Severe Male Factor, and were instructed to go directly to a Reproductive Endocrinologist.
- Before even seeing an RE, we promptly decided not to have children at all.
- That resolution only lasted about two weeks.
- Fast forward to now, and we are gearing up for our very first IVF cycle in January/February, though I'll likely be starting BCP's towards the end of December.
- In an effort to circumvent my crying over MUCH spilled milk, you can read about my sordid past here. It gets down to the nitty gritty of exactly what happened from the time we were diagnosed, to the beginning of what would be a break in TTC, and ART for pretty much all of 2010.
- The new RE we're seeing (referred to here as Dr.3) ran an obscenely comprehensive blood panel on me and it came back positive for MTHFR (two mutations of the A1298C gene, with a borderline homosteine level), Elevated TH1, TH2 and Natural Killer Cells. Awesomeness. Oh, and also Ovulatory PCOS - different than Classic PCOS - cause ya know - I'm an over achiever... Okay, not really.
- None of the aforementioned diagnoses were ever found by my previous RE(s) because they don't believe in Immunological Disorders. Or paying close attention to Antra Follicle counts evidently, because the OPCOS is as clear as day on a baseline u/s, and should have been determined easily based on the knowledge of my 30+ day cycle.
- I'm over the misdiagnosis - CLEARLY.
- I know you have 742 other blogs to read and comment on, so I'll keep it brief and end it here; welcome you to my blog and thank you in advance for your comment, then tell you I look forward to reading all of your blogs as well. Oh, and if you're going to be cycling with IVF close to when I am, be sure to say so in your comment - I'd love to stalk you and compare
Lupron induced rantsnotes!
Sometimes I wonder what I used to do with all my spare time before it was spent thinking about my uterus...
Sunday, November 21, 2010
November ICLW!
Each time I participate in ICLW I try to come up with some new-fangled concept for and intro. And today is no different! With that, I give you: Contributing factors in an Infertility Bloggers Life; via Bullet Point. Autobiographical.
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Don't we all start our IF blogs assuming it's going to be a prego blog real soon? Glad to hear I'm not the only one...
Great post - good to see all the current status in one place. And I think there's a 90% chance that we'll be postponing our IVF cycle to around January, so.... we could then cycle together!
Glad you are trying IVF! It isn't that bad. I will be sending your ovaries lots of positive vibes!! :)
You sure have been through a lot of road blocks and frustration. That seems to be the theme with IF. Good luck with your IVF!!
New-ish follower here.
I will be stalking your upcoming IVF cycle, and look forward to reading your posts up until then.
Now on to the other 742 blogs... ;)
Oh wow, really not long now until you start your IVF cycle! So exciting, can't wait to follow you through it and to that magical end result. Happy ICLW!
Good luck with your IVF! So glad Doc #3 seems to be on the ball!
ICLW #66
Also a ICLW drive by. What a list! I am amazed at the variety of opinions doctors have with immunological conditions. My current doctor disagrees with an expert on the MTHFR and here I hang thinking "to folic acid or not to folic acid." It is a sign of our messed up lives, indeed.
Hi Melissa - I have come out of hiding as I am a lurker. I may be starting my next (#6) IVF cycle in January so we can both keep tabs on each other.
We also have male factor and I also have the lovely OPCOS madness. I have been on Metformin for the past 2 months - we shall see if it makes a difference with this next IVF.
Wishing you luck and am here if you need anything~
Hi Melissa, happy ICLW. Sounds like you found the right doc for you. I'm excited for you to start IVF soon and look forward to following that journey.
LOL! I'm a big fan of bullet lists too! I especially liked yours. I hope this is a great week for you!
~Elaine
Good luck with your IVF cycle. I hope this works for you. It sounds like you have learned a lot and I hope that helps then get you pregnant!
Hello
Here for ICLW week! Best of luck on your Jan. IVF. We are considering IVF as well, possibly Jan. or Feb. We have a follow up appt. w/our R/E 1st week in Dec. to review all the test results. I think he mentioned that I'm an Ovulating PCOS'er also, I will def. confirm that, as the R/E back in 2006 said I had PCOS.
Looking forward to hearing about your journey.
The Cs
Due to my past history and my families, our 2nd RE just ordered a gob of tests including immune stuff. He basically bet us his salary that my NK cells will be sky high, are you going to have the IVIG infusion prior to your transfer? We are scheduled for a frozen transfer on 1/20...good luck!
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